The Two Ingredients to Surviving and Thriving

At the heart of every meaningful relationship, high-functioning team, resilient family, or community worth belonging to, are two fundamental needs: The need to feel a genuine sense of belonging and the need to be valued as a unique individual. These are not aspirational ideals. They are the baseline conditions for human beings to function, grow, and lead well.

Read More

Quiet Evangelism

In a world that feels increasingly loud, reactive, and uncertain, there is a particular kind of influence that doesn't announce itself. Quiet evangelism may be a way to reclaim a simple but necessary ingredient that is disappearing from our fast-paced world.

Read More

The More Important Mother-Daughter Talk

How a mother and daughter unravel the long-term effects of bullying in school, the “mean girl” syndrome in particular.  These painful memories are often difficult to shake, in part because they happen at such a vulnerable time developmentally.

Read More

Meeting the Challenge of Polarization through Restorative Conversations

Discover this skill-building communication exercise where individuals can approach many conflictual situations with conviction and confidence. Drawing from the Restorative Justice Movement, this technique illustrates how to set limits with injustice while simultaneously offering an invitation of compassion in the service of reconciliation and connection.

Read More

The Difference Between Healthy Pride and Narcissistic Grandiosity

Most of us are drawn to or fascinated by successful people. It creates a sense of hopefulness and possibility, a belief that success is attainable, even for those who struggle with confidence or the lack of opportunity.  So, how do we tell the difference between healthy pride/ambition and grandiose narcissism?

Read More
Listening With Purpose Patricia Gianotti Listening With Purpose Patricia Gianotti

A Failure of Nerve

A “failure of nerve” can be defined as a condition or response where people turn a blind eye, throw their hands up in the air, give in to badgering, make excuses for or minimize bad behavior, or lash out in frustration when a difficult situation presents itself.

Read More